Lists, yay! I love lists, and I don’t care what anybody tells me, I know we all have these lists when we’re dating. These lists can be as detrimental as they can be helpful, and I would like to share something that I learned a long time ago through experience and advice. There is a big …. BIG difference between your list of deal breakers, and your list of preferences.
Over the last few months, you have helped us build an incredible community of Desi singles who cherish their free time and don’t want to waste it scrolling through profiles. Every motivated single person’s goal when signing up for a dating site is to meet someone special. When searching for love, sifting through 1000′s of profiles is not a chore which need be added to the repertoire. In-fact when presented with profiles, catalog style, the human connection is quickly lost. At SimplyMatchME we focus on introducing you to one person at a time to bring back that personal connection.
SimplyMatchME’s mission from the start has been to introduce relevant and like-minded singles who go on to become beautiful couples. We are not an “online dating site”. In-fact as you know from my previous posts, I consider that term to be a misnomer. People don’t date online, we meet people online with the purpose of dating them offline.
To further our mission, we have been hard at work adding features we believe will make it even easier for you to meet the right person. Please read below and have a look at what we have been up-to then head on over to the site to try it out yourself!
If you have any questions or concerns please don’t hesitate to ping me.
email – firstname.lastname@example.org or twitter – @hansgill
Wait a minute, will SimplyMatchME post to my Facebook? Never! We added Facebook integration as a way for us to validate the person signing up. On top of validation of person’s identity we are able to make sure we don’t introduce you to someone you are already related to or friends with.
Get More Introductions
Along with 1 FREE INTRODUCTION a month (read below) you can easily earn lots of free Introductions. To keep track of your earnings, the earnings bar shows you how many earned introductions you have remaining and how many have been used. With each earning you are also helping SimplyMatchME user base grow! Thank you for sharing our service with your family and friends.
1 Free Introduction Each Month
SimplyMatchME has been sending free introductions since we started and we will continue to do so. Each month you will receive a free introduction. The bar on the page shows you how many earned introductions you have left and how you can get more.
Add up-to 5 images
It was clear from the survey we sent few weeks back that members want to add more images to their profiles. You can now add 5 images (upload or select from Facebook).
Marriage is such a chore! It’s like one of those things that you don’t really wanna do but you kinda have to. Right? Wrong! That mentality is the exact problem with a lot of people in our generation. Once again, I am speaking from experiences and conversations with my friends.
“The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!” – Rocky Balboa
Douche – a word to describe an individual who has shown himself to be very brainless in one way or another, thus comparing them to the cleansing products of vaginas.
“Stop whining and act like a man.” Are words, almost all guys heard growing up from their fathers. Well, easier said than done; for me it took years of hard work. My father must have smacked me a thousand times in the back of the head for me to finally get it. How did I become a grown man, what really defies a man, and what type of man are women looking for? I won’t give you three separate answers instead I’ll give you what I learned over the course of three grueling years on my road to becoming a man.
Head vs Heart – the perennial war. When it comes to love and relationships, I feel like there are two groups of people – the people who believe your heart is always right, and the group that believes your heart is always stupid. The truth is, love is a matter of both the heart and the mind. Well, at least, that’s how I see it. There are a plethora of factors involved when it comes to deciding who you wanna get into a relationship with – your checklist, your deal breakers, your requirements, etc.
“Only a heart that has been broken can truly love”- Unknown
In the “Dating War” you will have your heart broken at least once. Make sure you learn from it and don’t let it happen again.
Keep in mind, having unreal expectations only lead to disappointment and lonely meals. Ladies, if you expect a guy to meet every one of your expectations on your first date, you might be single for a long time. In the beginning neither of you know each other well enough. So here is what I have found that works. I call it the three date rule: